“In times of affliction, will we be known for joy? Or for despair? Will we be known for our joylessness?”
I’ve recently had a situation that has been less than ideal. Nothing horrible. Not an affliction. Yet definitely a frustration and an inconvenience, not only for myself but also for my family.
The first couple days after this situation was presented to me, I felt angry. How dare they do this?
And the more I dwelled on it, the angrier I got. I was sure to vent about it at home with my husband and children and even with a few close friends who would commiserate with me.
And then.
Those words from the quote above started resonating in my head over and over.
“In times of affliction, will we be known for joy? Or for despair? Will we be known for our joylessness?”
I’m not being afflicted. Yet I’m also not being known for joy.
Yes, things will be more stressful for the next few weeks. That part is true. But…
“… in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Giving thanks.
Being joyful.
Those are not easy directives when things don’t go your way. Yet still this is what we are called to do.
My heart was definitely not positioned for joy and thankfulness so one morning, I slipped quietly to the living room with my Bible and prayer journal. I prayed for peace. For joy. To be a good steward of the things that were presented to me.
And the Holy Spirit met me where I was, enveloping me with a sense of peace. A sense that I could do what was being asked of me.
And that I could do it joyfully with His help.
Friend, things won’t always go our way. I know this from experience.
But it’s the way we react to our disappointments and frustrations that indicate our relationship with Jesus.
Admittedly, I did not react appropriately in this instance. Yet I repented and asked for help. And He was faithful to love me anyway.
What do you need help with today? Ask the Father – He is waiting.